Tuesday 30 January 2024

Our generation is becoming so busy trying to prove that women can do what men can do that women are losing their uniqueness. Women weren't created to do everything a man can do. Women were created to do everything that a man can't do.

"To be a woman and feel so deeply and intensely about everything is a beautiful trait. Don’t let the world take that from you. To be able to feel emotions throughout your body, to be able to openly cry when you’re happy, sad or mad, to be able to feel the emotion you feel completely so you don’t cause trauma. To feel is to heal. To feel is to survive. You are not broken, you are living."

The woman who eschews femininity, who is content with her natural shape and size and smell, who is impatient with the lengthy rituals of femininity, is condemned by both sexes. To women, she is an uncomfortable reminder of the extent to which they have abandoned themselves to the demands of men. To men, she is a threatening warning that their domination is not total and that women still have the power to regain themselves.

be nice to yourself. eat breakfast and take a walk. be kind to yourself. trust yourself and take baby steps. leave procrastination behind because you can do this. trust me, you won't betray your to-do list this time. drink juices and eat healthy. bake your favorite shaped cookies and it's okay if don't want to share them. treat yourself like you are your best friend, your lover, your mother, your brother, your daughter because you deserve happiness and peace.

Kirsten and Joerg

Victorian House