Romanticizing life and finding happiness and aesthetic in lots of things is what makes life worth living, what helps us cope when we feel miserable a lot. You have a breakdown, then sit outside and a soft breeze hits you, the clouds look pretty, maybe everything isn't so bad. It doesn't fix things, but it makes us feel better. You stargaze a little, paint funny looking art, all of a sudden you feel different, better. Like some things are bad but some things are also good. Had a rough day, now I am making my favorite tea, listening to the animal crossing soundtrack. Life offers you comfort in many ways, interesting to think about.

You should always be dressed, like you expecting guest. Not the high class guest - but guest you like and want to look nice to. With a nice dress and a simple, but nice hairstyle (mostly clean hairstyle) you get this easily every day. So. If you not up to some really dirty work - throw yourself into some nice sweet clothes (think about a nice little coffee and cake meeting with you're parents, In - Laws and maybe grandparents) and you're good. If you clean, where a apron. If you about to go out, just put the apron away, maybe put on a bit of jewerly and you're fine to go out! Worked for me every time!

You should always be dressed, like you expecting guest. Not the high class guest - but guest you like and want to look nice to. With a nice dress and a simple, but nice hairstyle (mostly clean hairstyle) you get this easily every day. So. If you not up to some really dirty work - throw yourself into some nice sweet clothes (think about a nice little coffee and cake meeting with you're parents, In - Laws and maybe grandparents) and you're good. If you clean, where a apron. If you about to go out, just put the apron away, maybe put on a bit of jewerly and you're fine to go out! Worked for me every time!

The more non-sexual submission you offer him, the more he's going to want to make the most of it. You like it when he's being all confident and commanding, and you can even kickstart that behaviour by treating him as though he's being confident and commanding even when he isn't necessarily. People will become what you treat them like.

Make sure he has all the information at hand when you rely on him to make a decision. If you're long-distance, he's operating at a serious information deficit. If you want him to pick out your clothes, he's going to need some idea of what you have. Take pictures of your wardrobe, and describe the temperature outside. If he gives you instructions that don't quite work (because you forgot to tell him how cold it is/that you're going to spend the day at the library, and he's instructed you to plug your ass and put on a cocktail dress), find a compromise. Find a way to submit to him, and remind yourself often that your submission needs to be an active thing.

Follow him. Look to him for guidance as often as is convenient for you both, because he wants to feel like you trust his leadership. Granted, you need to actually do so... but then, you probably picked him because you trust his leadership. So show him! And remind him how grateful you are that you decided to submit to him.

What he truly craves is the non-sexual submission. Deferring to him, asking him to make decisions for you, and sweetly thanking him for improving your life. Come to him with problems even, and listen to him when he speaks. Don't expect him to have the right answer, you can work it out together.