Conformity requires us to minimize our differences for the greater good. We fear that if we don't conform, we will be abandoned, but there is no loneliness like having people only see you after you've erased yourself.”― Alok Vaid-Menon, Beyond the Gender Binary

I have caused trouble for myself by not confirming. I won't erase myself and half live. I enjoy the psychology and physiology of both sexes. The female dominates and the man in me obeys unless I'm threatened. Then the man overrides the woman