Get out of the mindset that people are better than you, that you cannot reach their standard, that they are inherently above you. Money, status, confidence, love, these are all attainable and rejecting yourself first from your ideal lifestyle/relationship/self-concept will keep you settling for crumbs. All the greats surpass their own standards and do not concern themselves with conforming to someone else's benchmark. You cannot believe you deserve the best if you can't even imagine your proximity to the best. Believe in an abundance mindset, believe in your efforts, believe you are limitless, believe you are worthy. Believe you have a seat at the table and that any standard that rejects your best effort is a redirection to a better seat, or a better table.