I’m so happy that the paradigm is shifting from this overtly boss babe grind culture to more soft life cause women have not benefitted from being hyper independent in relationships or in general cause at the end of the day no matter how much a women bring in (monetarily) a lot of times she get stuck with all the childcare and all the work that comes with keeping a household and I’m so glad that women are waking up and realizing that BUT when the culture shifts there tends to be a hard swing to the opposite side a lot of times. and let’s acknowledge the importance of independence when it comes to building self esteem. you need to be out in a uncomfortable situation where you improve and develop your skills to strengthen your self esteem and confidence. You cannot just recite mantras all day and become a confident person. You need to do the work and prove it to yourself.