“Fairy wives” behaved less like inexplicable creatures of the spirit
world and more like women who’d figured out how to have long-term
heterosexual relationships without ceding their dignity or autonomy.
So if Michael Cleary had a wife who was more beautiful than
ordinary women, who wielded more control than ordinary women,
who acted “too fine” for him or anyone, who had a habit of disappearing—well, he knew what to call her. If tradition had taught
him anything, it was that a woman who insisted too much on being
treated like a person was probably not a person at all.