Don't you ever think that a sweet, lovely, educated, good looking woman is soft. To become a lovely, well-mannered, well-spoken lady she worked on her character every single day. To be a highly educated woman she studied, focused and maintained discipline for years to achieve her goals. To look that good she works out every day, she eats healthy, takes care of herself and keeps a routine. She prioritises good habits. She works on herself every single day.