Shoes - The proper choice for footwear is always incumbent on the situation of the day, and what the rest of the outfit dictates. Typically, a matching color of high heeled pumps or maryjanes will be sufficient for a Housewife to wear while they do housework. Flats and sandals have their place in warmer months, but an afternoon in flats when you could be wearing heels may result in appearing lazy or incapable of walking in them. High heels extenuate your calves and rear in a way thats visually appealing. Remember that your comfort comes secondary to the beauty and visual appeal that you must give to others.