According to my own experiences, most women have the predisposition to be submissive . Some have it more , some have it less. The factor , that makes them want to embrace this submission , this femine mindset , is the environment they live in. The circumstances of her marriage. The relationship with her husband. If her man makes her feel safe, emotionally, spirituality , also financially , she can put down this walls of reserve , this armor she wore for so many years. If her man treats her right , provides for her , loves her... she can put down her " boss babe " mentally and allows herself to be dependent, submissive and obedient to this amazing men , who loves her just the way she needs it. She can bloom in this garden ...