Hobbies & Interests - As turbulent as the world is, find things to enjoy amidst the chaos. Constant work, doom, and gloom will not change anything you will only hurt yourself. Take time to indulge in things that make you happy to recharge & relax. Engage in hobbies that serve you, share your passion with other women & hear theirs out too. It goes a long way in terms of mental health.

What it takes to "improve ones life" is subjective so with that said firstly define what a better life(style) for yourself away from moids would look like. Temporarily mentally remove xy terrorist existence. What would your habits/routine be? What would you work towards & pour your energy into? What would you want to be? What would you center your life around? Take your time with these questions or anymore that come up. Have a general idea then be more specific and start breaking your life down into sectors/sections/areas, then look at where you want to be in those areas and work towards it.

another harsh truth a lot of you need to understand: beauty standards are real. i don’t care to argue with you— standards are exactly what they are: the baseline to conventional beauty. the more you fit with society’s standards of attractive, the better quality of life you’re going to experience.

i cannot stand people who give advice like “you look beautiful just the way you are!” and “it’s on the inside that counts”. here’s the harsh truth about life: the better you look, the more you get away with. we don’t live in lala land, we live in the real world that pretty privilege exists. by looking good, you get out of situations easier most of the time, you get handed better opportunities, and it’s easier to get what you want out of life.

I grew up living a simple life in the country, which was wonderful but was also during a time when the world was changing. I grew up in a semi tradtional household. My mom did all the cooking, cleaning, child rearing, and so much more. She started teaching us girls at a young age how to cook and clean.

It truly terrifies me that we live in a world where wanting to fall in love and take care of that person is considered political and extreme.

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