Tuesday 5 March 2024

We, as women, tend to focus so greatly on the macro-level details of ourselves that we end up neglecting whole other areas that may need improvement. We may not notice when something looks amiss about ourselves when focusing on so much, but it's almost certain that others around us do.

Physically, not everything has to be solely dedicated to your makeup, your hair, or your outfit. The feminine appearance has much more nuance than just how we dress.

i love being feminine!! i love wearing dresses and skirts, i love baking and sewing, i love picking flowers, i love doing my hair, i love womanhood, i love femininity!!! 🥰❤️

By trying too hard to be 'equal' in a relationship, all that is really happening is fighting for the upper hand all the time, and leading a life of unpredictability and uncertainty.

Traditional gender roles in a relationship can provide fulfillment and pride. Think about that feeling when a man holds a door open for you or pulls out your chair. As a woman, you feel seen and cared for, whilst the man also gets a sense of pride in being able to calm and provide for him woman. Similarly, when a woman is about to respect her man’s needs, desires, and advice, she feels a sense of pride. Overall, by having these roles in place, both people are working towards a harmonious and supportive relationship which leads to a deep level of understanding and respect.

Firstly, the traditional lifestyle promotes predictability, stability and comfort. Both men and women know their roles in the relationship. Men provide wisdom and advice, whilst women play a role of nurturing and caring. Both can achieve a sense of comfort of knowing what is expected of them, and how they can provide in the relationship.

To be the best woman you can be, embrace femininity ❤️

be nice to yourself. eat breakfast and take a walk. be kind to yourself. trust yourself and take baby steps. leave procrastination behind because you can do this. trust me, you won't betray your to-do list this time. drink juices and eat healthy. bake your favorite shaped cookies and it's okay if don't want to share them. treat yourself like you are your best friend, your lover, your mother, your brother, your daughter because you deserve happiness and peace.

Kirsten and Joerg

Victorian House