Tuesday 30 January 2024

When I say sex I don't mean 'night fun time' or anything related. I am talking about the category you are assigned at birth. This is what people usually mean when they say ''there is only two genders.'' Which isn't right anyway because there are three sexes. Male, Female and Intersex. Intersex is "Individuals born with any of several sex characteristics including chromosome patterns, gonads, or genitals that, according to the Office of the United Nations High Commissioner for Human Rights, 'do not fit typical binary notions of male or female bodies' ".

Let’s talk about exorsexism. Exorsexism is a form of discrimination that goes explicit against nonbinary, genderfluid, agender and inter persons or more generally any person that has gender characteristics other than cis or trans. Therefore exorsexism falls under the queerphobia umbrella. Exorsexism is the false believe that individuals can only be male or female (both sex and gender).

i love our dead and i love our living, i love our elders and i love our youth. i love our existence. i love all our shapes and sizes, i love all of our creeds and origins, i love all of our stories and above all i love us.

the gnc, the drag kings/queens, the intersex. the ones who fit stereotypes and the ones who don't, and i love the ones who identify with those stereotypes and i love the ones who don't. i love fat queers, and i love thin queers. i love leather queers and i love bears and i love those who make queerness into a statement and those who don't. i love those who make queerness into an art and those who don't. i love those who embrace being called weird queers and those who don't. i love our allies, i love those who aren't part of our numbers but are fighting for us all the same. i love those who come out early and those who come out later and i love those who don't come out at all.

i love the xenogender users, the neopronoun users. the nondysphoric trans people and the dysphoric trans people. i love the people who identify with microlabels and i love the people who don't identify with labels at all. i love the lesbians who are also gay men and the gay men who are also lesbians, i love people who identify with modern terminology and those who identify with old and outdated terms. i love the transvestites and the transsexuals and i love the dykes and i love the fags, i love those who are conventional and i love those who are nonconventional, i love the disabled queers and the queers of color. i love the religious queers and the nonreligious queers. and the closeted queers and the queers who are out.

We are not alone. We are valuable, and our intersex identity is worth celebrating. Our community knowledge, care for each other, and solidarity is worth celebrating. Our intersex joy is worth celebrating.

"When the physical and astral bodies are in perfect congruence, they look very much alike in shape, form, and essence. Transgendered individuals almost all have an astral body that reflects some aspect of their internal conception of their gender, although it may be more or less hermaphroditic than their internal conception. This is one of the few types of inherent dissimilarity. (Other inherent dissimilarities involve being not-quite-entirely human, and that is beyond the scope of this article.)"

Kirsten and Joerg

Victorian House