Santa's real elves

The Stages

Hand spankings are still my favorite.......

I recognize that look.....it says, “Go ahead, I am ready for you to pull my pants down and spank me over your knee because I have been a very naughty girl......I even made it easier for you to get it done by not wearing any panties!!!!!”

So many in the world can't bring themselves to deviate from how the world sees them at the risk of being an outcast. We all want to be like each other. As decades come and go, people change philosophies...from embracing feeling different to being afraid to have others see you for who you are. The saddest part of this is, as we get older, we fall into the routine so much that we're almost incapable of being anything else than what we've always been.

Don't ever try to be subtle with Men. They are not good at understanding subtle hints. Flirting is best done very bold. Men want it, they need it, spelled out. If you like a Sir, you better tell him as straight and direct as possible and well, as feminine as possible to his face.When flirting, don't just tell him he as nice biceps, he will think you just liked his biceps. Instead, show him what you want. We girls are often too reserved and wait for the Man to make the first move. This is perfectly natural and fine, but it doesn't mean you have to sit pretty and wait. Go on the offensive.Show your cleavage, upskirt him, bend over - be as forward as you dare, but also as passively feminine as is required. It is his role to ask you out (or get rejected), you don't have to set yourself up for this kind of drama. Also never deny a Man his chase. If he just gets you without any work, that is no fun. So give him his due chase when he asks you out but always show him that his goal (you) is within grasp.So try asking him for his help, make eye contact, offer yourself to him. Make it as clear as you can because he will not pick up on it easily. So don't be dismayed if he ignores you at first, he very likely didn't understand your advances. Men don't get offers from girls like that. The Men in the picture might even think she wants him off the couch so she can stretch out and relax. Men are amazing geniuses when it comes to solving problems, but with social cues they are useless.So don't be subtle girls. And if a Man ignores you, just come back with more force. Unless he clearly states "No", he is fair game. But also remember that Men like submissive girls that do as they are told. Sometimes this can be the best way to catch a Man's attention, by being exceptionally obedient.

For my dearly beloved husband please read this....Tips for Urinal Training

One of the thrills of servitude is providing your Owner with the luxury of a personal urinal. 

A fulfilling medium for Him to use you for release!!

Normalizing this habit into Your dynamic is a bonding experience. 

But it does take adjustment! No it's not easy. Physically or mentally. It takes a strong, loving dynamic to accomplish. And so worth it!

please note these tips are meant for neat, practical, real world, daily servicing purposes. 

Mattress pads - spilling is to be expected when training to drink from the source. Washing a soiled mattress pad is easier than trying to clean the actual mattress.

Keep a journal - track your Owners habits. Learn His bladder. Whenever possible, make yourself available to Him before its time to drink. 

Secret Code - (for advanced drinkers) create a code word or gesture for public use. Something as simple as a double tap on the hand maybe. It's up to Him. To signal you it's time to drink.

Taste conditioning - it does take some getting used to. Save some of His fluid in a bottle to sip on throughout the day. Pour a few capfuls into your drinks. In a short time, you will come to crave His flavor.