Most men can’t even comprehend how precious this gift is, when she finds you worthy enough to submit and finally opens herself up to you, when she shows her gratitude and obedience along with an insanely strong, ever present desire to serve and make you happy, trusts you to calm her mind, it’s beautiful beyond words, the experience to see the real her, to see how small and how big she is at the same time is indescribable.

A dom understands that being a dominant is 10% privilege and 90% responsibility. He is literally taking her life into his hands. He is accepting the most sacred and important thing she has to give. He is taking her burdens and bearing them as his own, always, every day.

A dom values her submission. Fully submitting your will and trusting your body and well-being to someone takes a kind of strength most can’t imagine, and a dom never loses sight of that.

A dom earns her submission. It is not a thing to be demanded, expected, or assumed. And he continues to earn it, each and every day.

A dom is a protector. He makes sure that his submissive feels safe and protected at all times. This means so much more than just telling her you will protect her. A dom shows her. He keeps a hand on her shoulder or on her waist in crowds so she doesn’t get nervous. He sleeps on the side of the bed closest to the door so that he is always between his submissive and an intruder. He walks on the side of the sidewalk closest to the street so that an errant vehicle will hit him before his submissive. If anything or anyone should threaten his submissive, he must be prepared to fight for her with the ferocity of an alpha wolf.

The fully trained wife knows that kneeling, even though he is not home yet, is the proper position while waiting. It doesn’t matter that he can’t see her. It matters because it puts her in the right mindset.

Females are emotional creatures and it is normal for them to have a hard time holding their emotions back. A Patriarchal Male gives them the space to express themselves while educating and discplining them out of letting emotions take over their role and duties of servitude