Tuesday, 10 December 2024

Emotional State

Mood

Home with my Husband

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My natural state

Cute

Frosty Cheshire Mornings

Marston Flash through many filters.

Redwings are members of the Thrush family. Spotted this chap defending his holly berries

I hate to hear you talk about all women as if they were fine ladies instead of rational creatures. None of us want to be in calm waters all our lives.”― Jane Austen, Persuasion

For every woman who burned a bra, there's a man burning to wear one.”― Miss Vera

The Good Ol' Days

December

The Secret Booth

The key to such power is ambiguity. In a society where the roles everyone plays are obvious, the refusal to conform to any standard will excite interest. Be both masculine and feminine, impudent and charming, subtle and outrageous. Let other people worry about being socially acceptable; those types are a dime a dozen, and you are after a power greater than they can imagine.”― Robert Greene, The Art of Seduction

Flowers spring to blossom where she walksThe careful ways of duty;Our hard, stiff lines of life with herAre flowing curves of beauty.”― John Greenleaf Whittier

Sexual distortions carry strong undertones of prejudice—sexism, racism and homophobia—that rob individuals of their individuality. Common stereotypes include “men are all dogs,” “women are less interested in sex,” “gays are promiscuous,” certain races are frigid or hung, and certain sex acts are indulgent, effeminate, or immoral. Other distortions clearly function as tools of organizations or of religious or political figures to shape public opinion through dogma and to control their followers’ lives.”― Alexandra Katehakis, Mirror of Intimacy: Daily Reflections on Emotional and Erotic Intelligence

Tuesday, 3 December 2024

Keep it Simple

Drag

Death of Rural Dairies

Struggle

Joolz

Queens Park

Wartime Kitchen

Series

Darkest Place on Earth

Arctic

Fields of Cheshire

Explore

Archeology

Cheshire

Celts in Cheshire

Celts

Lost Country Crafts

Skills

Home with my Husband

Sex is something scientifically distinct for most people. It’s defined by a certain package of genes and hormones as well as more obvious physical features, including a person’s genitals and gonads (although a small proportion of people are biologically intersex). Gender, meanwhile, is a social identity, influenced not only by biology but also by external factors such as upbringing, culture, and the effect of stereotypes.”― Angela Saini, Inferior: How Science Got Women Wrong—and the New Research That's Rewriting the Story

an interesting situation has occurred in the Dominican Republic, where enough intersexed people lived in several villages to have produced a special social category, the guevedoche.”― Joan Roughgarden, Evolution’s Rainbow: Diversity, Gender, and Sexuality in Nature and People

Recently I was working with a group of LGBTI people where the majority of the group were trans or intersex. I had been asked to lead the Bible study. We looked at the text where Jesus of Nazareth is twelve years old and is among religious leaders. He is astounding them with his insight. But they do not know how to believe that the truth can exist in this kind of human package. We, LGBTI people at a Bible study, asked a question: 'What truths have we known about ourselves since we were young?' People knew what it was to know themselves. They also knew what it was like for their insight to be denied. For decades. The Bible study lasted for hours. People spoke about the indigenous understanding they'd had about themselves since they could think. 'I didn't know the Bible could help us read our own lives,' someone said.”― Pádraig Ó Tuama, The Book of Queer Prophets: 21 Writers on Sexuality and Religion

Life

Greg Wallace

Intersex is the natural phenomenon known to the medical profession for centuries but necessarily obscure to everyone else. It is the fact that a small percentile of human beings are born either with ambiguous genitalia or turn out to have other biological attributes (for instance an unusually large clitoris, or an unusually small penis) which suggest that they may lie somewhere between the sexes.”― Douglas Murray, The Madness of Crowds: Gender, Race and Identity

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All of this is dehumanizing. We can’t just care about “intersex” when it comes up in an argument. Intersex people are people—image bearers of the divine and gifts to the church.”― Preston M. Sprinkle, Embodied: Transgender Identities, the Church, and What the Bible Has to Say

There’s no one right way to live as a trans person—or cis, or nonbinary, or intersex person, etc.—because there is no ‘right way’ to be human.”― Marina J. Lostetter, Noumenon Infinity

The system didn’t want to say that I’m intersex. That I’m not female or male. The doctors wanted to choose a gender for me and then make my body agree with their ideas about who I should be.”― Pidgeon Pagonis, Nobody Needs to Know: A Memoir

Money spent the rest of his childhood in a predominantly female household in consistent poverty. His childhood instilled in him a dislike of religious dogma and sexual prudery as well as a deep class-consciousness alongside his ambition to transcend his meager beginning, Science would become his religion”― Sandra Eder, How the Clinic Made Gender: The Medical History of a Transformative Idea

She glanced over at me. “Are you gay because you’re intersex?” “No. That has nothing to do with it. Gender and sexual orientation are two totally different things.”― Sarah Havan, An Omega Kind of Love

It is important for LGBTQIA+ folks, especially youth, to have queer role models. Visibility normalizes queerness, decreases societal stigma, and makes youth safer.”― Charlie McNabb, Queer Adolescence: Understanding the Lives of Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual Youth

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Know the difference

Emotional State

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Mood

Girdles are so me

Emotional State